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Dating

At times, dating can be an exhilarating mood-lifter; at other times, it can be extremely anxiety-provoking. When it comes to healthy dating it’s helpful to have realistic expectations, clear boundaries, and a whole lot of patience. Discussing the ups and downs as well as your dating goals with a therapist is beneficial too.

It can take several dates to know if someone is right for you. Unless there are obvious “red flags,” if you like the person and feel chemistry, it’s useful to get to know the person for a while. Know, too, that it’s OK to pause your dating search for a while. There is nothing wrong with being single, and it can take several years to find “the one.” Try not to compare your journey to that of others’.

If you struggle with mental illness, dating can be especially challenging. You may be more sensitive to the sting of rejection, or take longer to recover after a blow to the self-esteem. Being open about who you are and what you need in a relationship is vital. You don’t need to discuss your mental illness on the first date, but it’s wise to bring it up sooner rather than later. If the person you are dating isn’t OK with your mental health, they are probably not the one for you.

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Published on: 11 Feb 2022
Clinically Reviewed by Liz Colizza LPC, NCC
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Clinically Reviewed by Liz Colizza LPC, NCC

7 Relationship-Strengthening Activities for Valentine’s Day

Published on: 11 Feb 2022
Clinically Reviewed by Liz Colizza LPC, NCC
  • Written byNicole Hannel
  • Feb 11, 2022
Clinically Reviewed by Liz Colizza LPC, NCC
Updated on 5/16/2022 Valentine’s Day looks different for every couple, but whether you go all out or make…
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Published on: 03 Feb 2022
Clinically Reviewed by Liz Colizza LPC, NCC
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Clinically Reviewed by Liz Colizza LPC, NCC

A Therapist’s #1 Tip to Foster a Lasting Relationship

Published on: 03 Feb 2022
Clinically Reviewed by Liz Colizza LPC, NCC
  • Written byNicole Hannel
  • Feb 03, 2022
Clinically Reviewed by Liz Colizza LPC, NCC
As we approach Valentine’s Day, couples are busy making plans to celebrate with romantic dates and big gestures.…
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Published on: 06 Jan 2022
Clinically Reviewed by Bisma Anwar, LMHC
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Clinically Reviewed by Bisma Anwar, LMHC

How to Fix Trust Issues in a Relationship

Published on: 06 Jan 2022
Clinically Reviewed by Bisma Anwar, LMHC
  • Written byMinkyung Chung, MS, LMHC
  • Jan 06, 2022
Clinically Reviewed by Bisma Anwar, LMHC
Trust is an issue in our society. According to the Pew Research Center, close to 71% of Americans…
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Published on: 04 Jan 2022
Clinically Reviewed by Amy Cirbus Ph.D, LMHC, LPC
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Clinically Reviewed by Amy Cirbus Ph.D, LMHC, LPC

Fear of Intimacy: Signs, Causes, and How to Overcome It

Published on: 04 Jan 2022
Clinically Reviewed by Amy Cirbus Ph.D, LMHC, LPC
  • Written byCynthia V. Catchings LCSW-S
  • Jan 04, 2022
Clinically Reviewed by Amy Cirbus Ph.D, LMHC, LPC
Fear of intimacy in a relationship isn’t necessarily the result of not wanting to be close to others…
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Published on: 21 Dec 2021
Clinically Reviewed by Ashley Ertel, LCSW, BCD
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Clinically Reviewed by Ashley Ertel, LCSW, BCD

What is Emotional Cheating?

Published on: 21 Dec 2021
Clinically Reviewed by Ashley Ertel, LCSW, BCD
  • Written byJill E. Daino, LCSW-R
  • Dec 21, 2021
Clinically Reviewed by Ashley Ertel, LCSW, BCD
Cheating can be one of the worst of all betrayals in a relationship, and when it comes to…
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Published on: 24 Nov 2021
Clinically Reviewed by Cynthia V. Catchings LCSW-S
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Clinically Reviewed by Cynthia V. Catchings LCSW-S

17 Communication Exercises for Couples Therapy

Published on: 24 Nov 2021
Clinically Reviewed by Cynthia V. Catchings LCSW-S
  • Written byElizabeth Keohan, LCSW-C
  • Nov 24, 2021
Clinically Reviewed by Cynthia V. Catchings LCSW-S
Updated on 5/16/2022 All couples will, at one time or another, go through a rough patch in their…
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Published on: 20 Oct 2021
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Dating Someone With OCD: What to Expect & How to Help

Published on: 20 Oct 2021
  • Written byCynthia V. Catchings LCSW-S
  • Oct 20, 2021
Let’s face it. Dating can be hard. There are ups and downs in any relationship, and if it’s…
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Published on: 11 Feb 2021
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How to Fend Off Loneliness

Published on: 11 Feb 2021
  • Written byHannah Connors
  • Feb 11, 2021
February is here and with it comes an overwhelming slew of Valentine’s Day imagery and reminders of who…
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Published on: 03 Dec 2020
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Dating Can Be Complicated When You Struggle with Self-Harm

Published on: 03 Dec 2020
  • Written byJordan Davidson
  • Dec 03, 2020
Every successful relationship requires some vulnerability — there’s no way around it. But it can be hard to…
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Published on: 28 Jul 2020
Clinically Reviewed by Jill E. Daino, LCSW-R
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Clinically Reviewed by Jill E. Daino, LCSW-R

For Couples, Being Stuck Inside Together Isn’t The Same As Being Intimate

Published on: 28 Jul 2020
Clinically Reviewed by Jill E. Daino, LCSW-R
  • Written byAshley Laderer
  • Jul 28, 2020
Clinically Reviewed by Jill E. Daino, LCSW-R
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